Parisian women have an inner elegance that’s envied the world over. They are so relaxed about ageing and seem to acquire more charisma and beauty with time. Who wouldn’t want to be like them? That’s the trick – to embrace the natural progression of life and to be confident. -Naomi Watts
As we age, there are changes in our life. But beyond the changes that can be easily observed, the physical and such, there are also internal changes that can make us shift our view of the world. The stereotype often suggests that older people are inflexible in their opinions, however, it doesn’t always prove true. Many older people find themselves happier and more content with their situation than in other stages of their life. So, what happens? How does perspective change with older age?
Wisdom comes with age
Not all, but many older adults are able to better apply their life experiences and make savvy judgments. They become wiser and more tempered in their expressions.
This is the consequence not just of life experience but also of thinking, reflecting, and improving through said life experience. Wise people are those who have worked hard to learn, something that pays off at this life stage. They are more able to see the world through the lens of wisdom.
The insignificant matters less
When we are younger, we can erroneously ascribe a lot of value in things like other people’s opinions or the material. But older people usually know the game and have recognized the truth of the matter. They know what truly matters and have learned to treasure it more, to value their relationships, health, and experiences.
What matters less becomes less relevant. Older people no longer become fixated on negatives that are not impactful. Instead, they give attention to things that fill their life with joy and meaning.
Life becomes examined
With old age, people become more aware of death. While this can cause significant anxiety, it also inspires people to become more aware of their life and everything that happened within it.
People might be more focused on the meaning of their lives. They evaluate what they did and make peace with past mistakes just as they celebrate the achievements that they have accomplished.
People teach others
Older adults like sharing their wisdom and advice with younger generations. Sure, these might not always be fully open, but older adults have a lot to offer. As mentors and guides, their experience makes them invaluable.
Being older gives the person experiences they can share with others and also a greater willingness to do the same. They might see their knowledge as something precious and hope to pass it on. Their attitude can also be much more open to sharing what they have and what they know.
Indifference towards the shallow
Just as insignificant things matter less, wise older adults let go of vanity and don’t care much for appearances. Instead, they begin to value more what is inside, in themselves and others.
Older people can develop a view of the world that goes deeper and is more insightful. But that means that what’s on the outside becomes less important. Instead, the essentials lie on the inside.
Cherishing the little things
For many older adults, a big problem is their health and their difficulties with health. Sadly, many face more physical limitations and problems. But as they do, this can also show them the importance of the little things, something that most take for granted, like being able to go outside or walking without pain.
Older adults can feel more gratitude and awareness towards the small things that others take for granted. This can be frustrating, but also involves a deeper love for life and living. Every breath can be infused with meaning.
Not all older adults become much wiser or better, that’s true. But those who allow age to teach its lessons can achieve a lot and find a lot of happiness as they age. With all the challenges of old age, older adults can still enjoy their lives and have full, abundant experiences. As we age, it’s useful to consider the stage of life we are walking towards and decide how we want to face it, with or without wisdom.
